If you’ve ever taken care of a baby, you know crying is just part of life. But when it feels like the crying never stops, it can feel like you’re stuck in an endless loop of frustration and sleepless nights.

Now, one dad has found a simple trick to calm babies fast—and parents everywhere can’t stop talking about it.

The Challenge of Calming a Crying Baby

Babies cry for a lot of reasons. They could be hungry, need a diaper change, or just be too tired. For the most part, these are easy fixes. But then there are those moments when nothing seems to work—feeding, rocking, even singing their favorite lullaby. You try everything, and they’re still crying like they’re auditioning for the loudest baby in the world.

For parents of particularly fussy babies, it’s enough to make you feel helpless. That’s why finding something—anything—that soothes them can feel like a small miracle.

The Dad Who Stopped Crying in 18 Seconds

Enter Jonathan, better known as “Tuque Daddy,” a dad whose calming technique has gone viral. In a now-famous video, Jonathan is seen holding his crying 2-month-old son in a way that stops the tears almost instantly. The baby starts out red-faced and wailing, but just 18 seconds later, he’s calm and peaceful.

So, what’s the secret? Jonathan gently wraps his baby’s arms across his tiny chest, cradles him snugly, and gives a soft, soothing bounce. His words, “You alright, my boy?” only add to the warmth of the moment.

It’s not just adorable—it’s life-changing for parents desperate to calm their little ones.

A Technique Backed by Science

Jonathan didn’t come up with this trick all on his own. His method is inspired by Dr. Robert Hamilton, a pediatrician from California who’s been teaching “the hold” to parents for years.

Dr. Hamilton’s video demonstrating the technique has been viewed millions of times. Parents everywhere praise it as a lifesaver, and it’s easy to see why. By combining gentle movements with a secure hold, “the hold” works to calm babies in a way that feels natural and safe.

How to Try “The Hold” Yourself

If you’re eager to try this technique, here’s how it works:

1. Fold the Baby’s Arms: Gently cross your baby’s arms over their chest.
2. Support the Head and Bottom: Hold the baby with one hand under their bottom and the other supporting their head and neck.
3. Softly Bounce or Rock: Use small, smooth movements to bounce or sway them gently.

It’s simple, effective, and—most importantly—safe when done properly.

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